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ADvice from Bud the Sub TJ Ryder http://www.midnightx.com/
The perfect sub, from my point of view.
I subbed to my first black master in high school, but began developing my life and body around serving the superior Black Male in the military as a sailor. Being smallish, blonde and thin I know I had advantages in being passable as a tv, but this advice is for anyone.
First, the basics, No body hair at all except on top of your head! Use a feminine hair remover lotion on your beardline, recommended approach instead of shaving. Use it on your legs and genitals, although my current master likes me having a small triangle over my genitals.
The body shape itself: no matter what your'e built like, and if you don't have to unload trucks daily, reduce the bulk muscle, eliminate steroids, and go for smooth, finely defined muscle definition. This is a diet and exercise lifestyle. Mostly vegetarian and fish. No junk food, little fried food, no weight lifting type exercise. Go for biking, race walking, tai chi, martial arts, rock climbing, anything you like doing. Distance and Time is more important that maximum effort.
Working a muscle to exhaustion creates bulk, increased aerobics and repetition creates definition.
First thing I did after deployment was get two tongue studs, actually round balls on the top of the tongue. I already had nipple stretches and rings, covered in another article.
First tongue stud, the bigger of the two, is pretty much in the center of the tongue, depending on tongue size. Practice with a rubber dildoe if its circumcized, your stud should be right where the underside of the penis spreads under the knob. My master's cock is uncut, but most guys are cut, and everyone iv'e met loves the feeling of that stud massaging the underside of his glans on a blowjob. I have actually three sizes of that stud, one so big its hard to talk with. A big knob wouldn't fit in my mouth with it!
The second stud is smaller, and you can have several sizes for that one, as it is much more noticeable and affects your speaking. It's close to the tip! This is for rim jobs! Probing in and out with this stud out front is very pleasurable for your master!
Depending on your unit you might have to be discreet in smaller sizes, but be aware the holes can close up pretty quick, and its a painful process.
I don't like tattoos myself so not getting into flying those flags. While a current master might like it, a sub white boy's duty is to serve all Black Men.
Genital size is already mentioned here, but a good sub can help it along. Long periods of no sex opportunities can be used for self discipline, and a good sub loves discipline. This is your decision but I like to let my balls get swollen, and instead of ejaculations, I try for a controlled milking, squirting out a little precum to relieve the prostate instead of just spraying my sheets. I kind of feel that a good sub should only cum when someone's cumming in him and that's especially true if your'e trying to be faithful to someone. If you have to cum, make it a reward for a difficult assignment you give yourself, so difficult you can't do too often.
And when I do have to masturbate, I used a flared dildoe in my anus. Always use a dildoe with a flare, I could go on and on about emergency room horror stories.
For ejaculation, I find that Africans particularly, but everyone benefits from Yohimbe root extract, and saw palmetto is good for the prostate too. An animo acid cocktail with recipes for everything is published all over the net. If I don't cum for several days, take that stuff and take melatonin tablets which is a natural hormone, I can fill a large prophylactic up! I can also get some in my eye jacking off on my back! Wear a tight cock ring and maybe even a testicle harness to squeeze the base of your cock if you don't want to cum accidentally when your'e taking a cock. I like to save that juice for my master instead of squirting it out on the rug.
Passing. Go for a medium hair length, enough to tie in a short pony tail. I personally like night and day, what we call a flip side. I'm naturally blonde and blue, but I went for a dark wig and brown contacts when I started out. Before the cosmetics I was usually male and cruising female, in time and clothing. Now its the opposite, and I chose breast enlargement that could be concealed in a jacket so I can switch back. Those big boobies might look nice in a mag but too big is unnecessary.
I chose breasts that were big enough so I could go out on public dates with Black males who couldn't be seen with faggots, plus I had to look foxy for their image. For that I had to use a push up bra!
Making out with a buck you will get hard, and if you suck as much protein in as I do plus take all those vitamins and your'e not on hormones, your'e going to get bigger, so I use a modified chastity sheath keeping my cock against my flat belly so when it inflates it goes straight up. I wear a pleated, I know old fashioned, short skirt and if it creeps up past my waistline I have several accessories I tie casually around my middle.
Fortunately I didn't have to get my adam's apple modified but that's I don't think that noticeable unless it is really protuberant. I have a high tenor voice anyway, but no matter what the voice, usually just speaking softly is good enough.
Facial structure, Lips and cheekbone enhancements do wonders, cheap and easy and safe. Makes a big difference with makeup. My collagen filled lips now give much more surface area when gliding up and down a big black cock!
When I cruise now, I use a flared buttplug mostly for emotional support, tight nipple clamps, a semi chastity belt, and I have in my purse some flags that I can choose to put on in appropriate places. I have a different plug in my purse because if I get pumped full I like to keep his load in me afterwards.
Security: I could go on forever here, but to keep it tight! In one black club its customary to put on a HESHE medallion cuz some guys want to know the score. NEVER go into the Ladies room of a black club if you aren't totally passable, the sistahs hate white girls and hate white boys pretending to be white girls and theyr'e bigger than you are and all carrying nasty stuff. Take advantage of the fact you can piss standing up and use an alley. Good to scope out anyway, you'll probably be squatting there anyway to avoid running your nylons while you drain some big black cock of hot sperm!
If your'e into toys, use your own. I have a pair of handcuffs that I can get out of if I have to. I carry a key chain Mace spray and a small pair of running shoes in my purse. Can't run in heels!
If your'e a small thin guy like me with a tight butt and average mouth, you need to do some special exercises if you like big black marines! Practice with various sized rubber dildoes, keep them clean! For both mouth and butt! Learn to control the gag reflex and it will give you confidence. I suggest yoga but thats just my opinion.
Buttplugs! I have several kinds. All black of course(smile)! One is definitely a punishment, studded, too thick! Several are merely to not get too tight, and one is for wearing out at work, shopping, or even cruising. I wear nipple clamps on a chain with it and it keeps me hard enough so I need a chastity sheath inside my panties and I seep enough precum to need a plastic liner.
Here's the big rule for buttplugs. Start small, keep clean, and ALWAYS use a flared bottom. Do I even have to mention the horror stories an intern friend told me who worked an emergency ward?
Buttplugs can give you a great jackoff and provide excellent training! When my last boyfriend went on deployment he left an extra pair of his shiny size 15 black boots behind! He ordered me to spitshine then once a week just like I did when he wore them!
Wearing panties and heels, my punishment buttplug, nipple rings with weights, and with considerable discomfort, I managed to gradually extend the distance I would start from on my bedroom wooden floor until now I can cross the whole room on my hands and knees with that buttplug balls deep in me! After licking and kissing every shiny black leather inch, it would only take much at all to absolutely fill my panties with cum! And then I wouldn't be tempted to go out and cheat!
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Blackowned Slut and sheboy Illustrated! http://www.midnightx.com/ TJ Ryder
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